Things Change

A friend of mine has just recently started seeing a new man. I like him. And to be honest, I have never seen her this happy before. Ever.

But its frightening. I used to play the role of the guy she turned to when she was hurt by her ex. The guy who got to make her day better for her. The guy who was her listening ear when she needed to talk about relationships, money, life, future plans.

And now - he is all of those things. He's the one who makes her day better - constantly. He's the one she talks to.

I just don't understand what my new role is. I know she isn't leaving me behind. I've been very openly invited along for the new journey. I just don't understand where I fit in, anymore. Its going to be an adjustment. I'm nervous about that...